People are becoming more negative, in a bad mood or short with people these days! I am honestly not sure how to handle it. There are sometimes I just want to be my blunt self, but then I remember that when I feel like someone is being negative that ultimately I am the one who is perceiving the person is negative and I need to learn to see the goodness of the person that is negative. Lets just say that is hard sometimes.
The negativity stuff is a little bit easier to deal with then the bad moods and the shortness from people! Its horrible. You can be in such a great mood and then one person that is around you can be in a horrible mood and get short with you over nothing. Then it happens your whole mood changes and you become in a bad mood. I guess not even a bad mood, it can also make you feel hurt sad or like you have done something wrong. Its not a fun feeling but I feel like some of the people around me or that I HAVE to interact with have been like that. It for sure takes a lot out of you to ignore it and keep your good mood! It kind of makes me think about when I am in a bad mood or short with people how mean I look. Makes you want to work on your bad moods and remember that you are the only one that can control your mood! Once again though sometimes its HARD!!! Some days I am better at it then others. This last week not so good at it!
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